Sign of a player dating
If you slow things down and try to get to know them, they will move on to easier pickings.
Players know it is just a matter of time before you see through the con.
Even then, you have to be prepared to walk away—like Emma Stone was—if he starts to waver or change his mind.
Now before you get discouraged and decide to become a nun, recognize that these bad actors are only about 10 percent of the single men out there.
Always remember that until a mack is ready to commit there is nothing you can do to catch him.
Furthermore, the only reason a mack will put a ring on it is if he becomes utterly bored with the game like Ryan Gosling’s character in Crazy, Stupid, Love.
The problem is they can spend years or even playing the field with their revolving harem of women before they decide to commit, kind of like George Clooney who only recently got engaged.
However, the more serious problem is with the part of their nature.
— Dating is a jungle filled with both danger and opportunity and it isn’t easy telling which is which.
Knowing the specific dangers is key, because blanket judgments like “all men are cheaters” may protect you, but it will also block you from the opportunity of a wonderful relationship.
Namely they are still immature, allergic to hard work and responsibility.
Even if they commit to a long-term relationship, they can’t give up partying and playing enough to make a relationship work.