Do you have good conversations with each other as husband and wife?
When the meltwater reaches a lake the heaiest sediments sand and silt sink to the bottom quickly and eventually formed thick layers of light colored rock.
Do you even make it a point to have meaningful talk times together?
The goal here is to get the two of you talking to each other. Often I have sent couples home with the assignment to “Talk to each other.” They come back the next week saying something like, “We tried, but every time we would sit down to talk one of us would say, ‘Okay, what do you want to talk about?
The assignment is a fun way not only to get the conversations going, but also to learn some things about your souse you may never have known before.
The more you know about a person, the more intimate the relationship becomes.