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Another asked her to be his fourth wife after only a couple of dates.There were lots of late nights out dancing, followed by cozy nights in chatting online, getting to know someone.At this point, my mom estimates she's been on nearly 50 dates — some with men 20 years younger.And though she didn't join Tinder with specific expectations, something wasn't clicking. "No one I met on the app, none of them, wanted a committed, long-term relationship," she said."Dating apps work for men, and older men, but don’t work for older women," my mom said."Most women who are older are not looking for hookups, where most men are looking for whatever experiences they can get.
She did, however, see that the options available to her younger girlfriends were much more plentiful.At 57, she downloaded Bumble — Tinder seemed too aggressive, she told me.She's also tried Happn and Ok Cupid, but quickly trashed them because she didn't find a big enough pool of users in her age range, or found the app to be too trendy.What she was searching for was innocent enough: someone who she can have fun with, travel with, and ultimately be in a long-term relationship with. "It is different when you are in a foreign country, you have people from all over the world, and unless you are going out to clubs and bars, it is difficult to meet people." So, she swiped right. One man she met she described as a multimillionaire who picked her up in a Jaguar limo and took her to the Dubai opera. She moved to Abu Dhabi in 2015 and was teaching at a university there, when a female colleague two decades younger introduced her to Tinder.