Dating she is not right for me
One thing that happens is that while you’re single or just dating, you’re having crazy, wild sexual adventures; you’re banging out in concert bathrooms, experimenting with new tricks and positions, enjoying sex in the great outdoors…
and then “settling down” in a relationship and assuming that the adventures are over because you’re in something “serious” now.
In fact, there are many times when that “preference” is a form of self-sabotage.
The most common issue comes from mis-matched libidos – she may want it every day and twice on Sundays while you’re ok with once a week or so… Unless accommodations can be reached, then one or resents feeling like he’s obligated to “put out” all the time, even when he really doesn’t want to.
But sexual compatibility goes deeper than just whether you’re on the same sex schedule; it also means that your for power-exchange games and BDSM in their sex is going to have a hard time with a partner who’s only interested in missionary with the lights off.
He knows im a virgin and promised that he will wait until im ready to lose it. Im scared to tell my mother because its a 6 year age gap.
We love eachother and we say it all the time with meaning.